How it works

Not everyone deserves the same seat at your table.

Bove replaces one flat inbox with three honest tiers of closeness -> so intent is visible, not implied.

Matches

Where every connection starts. Enough to explore, not enough to feel like a marketplace.

250-character messages keep early conversation intentional.

Bovee

Up to 5 people you're getting to know more seriously. Unlimited messages, deeper conversation.

Doesn't have to be mutual to begin -> you set your own pace.

Boved

The most exclusive tier: one person, and it has to be mutual. Sent by request, accepted by choice. And your who you are Boved with shows in your profile.

Unlimited messages, with photos and voice notes to follow.

Designed against mindless swiping

A five-second pause

Every profile gets a minimum look before you can pass -> attention over reflex.

Daily like limits

Fewer, more considered likes -> quality discovery over endless scrolling.

Like & Special Interest

A rarer, quieter way to signal real interest -> noticed by the other side.

Clean exits

Unmatching or blocking is final and respected -> no re-appearing uninvited.

No ghosting

If no message is sent by either side within 24 hours during Matches or Bovee, you're automatically unmatched -> no dead conversations left hanging.